Pumpkin Spice & Place Command: Helping Your Dog Stay Calm During Fall Gatherings
Whether it’s a Friendsgiving feast in the Bitterroot Valley or a backyard bonfire with neighbors in Missoula, fall brings a season full of social gatherings—and lots of opportunities for your dog to either shine or… well, stress you out.
Jumping on guests, begging at the table, barking at the door, or pacing through the kitchen can quickly turn a cozy evening into a frustrating one. The good news? A solid place command can be your secret weapon.
Here’s how to use the place command to help your dog stay calm, respectful, and out of the chaos during any fall gathering.
What Is the “Place” Command?
The “place” command teaches your dog to go to a designated area (usually a raised cot, mat, or bed) and stay there until released.
It’s not just about obedience—it’s about creating calm structure. Instead of following guests around or darting underfoot, your dog learns that stillness and relaxation are rewarded.
Why Place Is Perfect for Holiday Hosting
When practiced properly, “place” solves multiple hosting headaches:
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Reduces jumping on guests at the door
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Prevents counter-surfing or food begging
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Creates a calm space in the middle of excitement
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Helps dogs learn to self-regulate around new people
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Sets boundaries in busy rooms like the kitchen or dining area
For dogs prone to anxiety or overstimulation, it also acts as a decompression tool.
How to Prep Your Dog for Fall Events
Start practicing at least 1–2 weeks before your event. Here’s a step-by-step plan:
Step 1: Introduce the Place Mat
Choose a raised cot, mat, or bed in a low-distraction space. Reward your dog for going onto the mat, then build duration slowly.
Step 2: Add Distractions
Once they’re holding “place” reliably, start adding distractions:
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Doorbell rings
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People walking by
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Food smells
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Background music or chatter
If your dog breaks position, calmly guide them back and reset.
Step 3: Practice with You Moving Around
Host a “fake” gathering—walk around with plates, sit at the table, or greet an imaginary guest—while your dog practices staying calm on place.
Step 4: Extend Duration
Work up to 30 minutes or more. Offer chews, frozen Kongs, or scatter kibble on the mat to build a positive association with staying settled.
Day-of Tips for Success
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Practice place before guests arrive to get your dog in a working mindset
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Set up the place area in a calm, low-traffic spot with a view (but not in the middle of the party)
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Use your e-collar or leash if needed for added accountability
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Remind guests not to excite or feed your dog while they’re on place
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Have high-value rewards nearby for calm behavior
What If My Dog Can’t Handle Guests Yet?
If your dog is:
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Barking at new people
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Jumping uncontrollably
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Getting overly excited or fearful
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Unable to hold commands around chaos
…they likely need more structured training to work through those triggers.
We specialize in helping dogs build focus, self-control, and calmness around distractions—including people and food. Whether your dog is reactive, overexcited, or anxious, we’ll build a personalized plan for your fall season.
Hosting Shouldn’t Be Stressful—for You or Your Dog
Don’t wait for your dog to fail during Thanksgiving dinner or the next football party. With just a little prep, you can enjoy fall festivities with a calm, confident pup by your side.
Contact us at 406-946-3037 or fill out the form below to schedule a FREE consult call. Our team of Missoula-based trainers is here to help!
